Dear Sammy

Dear Sammy,

I’m writing to you because I’m struggling with a tough decision about my career. I’ve been at my current job as a nurse for 13 years, and while it pays the bills, I feel completely unfulfilled. A friend recently suggested a path change into teaching, which sounds exciting but involves going back to school and taking a pay cut for a few years.

My spouse is supportive but nervous about the financial risk. I’m afraid if I don’t try this, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life. Should I play it safe or follow my passion and risk our financial stability?

Signed,

Career Crossroads

Dear Career Crossroads,

Follow your passion ! You may regret it in the future if you don’t, if you don’t like it, you can always return to nursing. We were brainstorming, and thought of this solution: try being a school nurse for a little while. This way you don’t lose work hours going to school for a new career, and you get the experience of being around children. Best of luck on your career journey !

Dear Sammy

My best friend, “Leila,” has developed an annoying habit that is driving me crazy. When we go out to dinner at a Mexican restaurant, she insists on correcting the waiter’s pronunciation of nearly every dish, even when the waiter is clearly Hispanic. Just last week, she ordered “Al Pastor” and then spent five minutes telling the server he was saying it wrong. It makes the whole experience incredibly awkward, and I feel like I need to apologize to the staff every time.

I’ve hinted that it’s not necessary, but she just laughs it off and says she’s “educating” them. How do I tell my friend that she needs to stop being so pretentious without starting a major fight?

Signed,

Mortified in Mexican Restaurant

Dear Mortified,

This is inappropriate behavior towards service staff! Though you’ve tried talking to her about this before, try explaining from a point of view that it is belittling to the staff, and takes time away from their service to both you and others in the restaurant. If in bounds, you can also mention the embarrassment and anxiety it brings you. Stop inviting her to Mexican restaurants!

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